I would like to start by saying that as of September 15 1998, there is a new love
in my life. Her name is Tammy and she is a gift from God to me. She has been a really
great friend for many years. But as my marriage turned to divorce and I needed
extra suport, she was there being strong for me when I could not. I never expected
this to become more than a great friendship. But it seems that the heavens smiled
on me. One day after a long talk I managed to work up the courage to give her a kiss.
I half expected to get slapped not thinking that she (or anyone for that matter) could
feel love for me. I was quite suprised and pleased when she pulled me in to extend
the kiss as I started to pull away. That simple kiss has now become a full and rewarding
love. I know now that this is the woman that I was always ment to find and be with.
This love will carry us into our golden years and beyond. I only wish that I had found her
much sooner in life. Even thought that did not happen, I know that the remainder of my
life will be a full and rich one as she travels at my side through the years.
Just so everyone is clear on this point, I am currently married
at this time. But back in late July I started the divorce process. I went and got a lawyer and started
filing the paperwork. At that time, falling in love was not on my list of things to do any time
in the near future. Until this day, I didn't know if I would ever really be able to trust another
woman with my heart. Then it happened.
Some people have accused Tammy of steeling me away from my family.
This just isn't so. The divorce has been coming for many years. There was no "hanky-panky" or even
anything more than friendship until today. I know people will still talk. I know that no matter what
Tammy or I say there will be those that don't believe. That really doesn't matter to me. I know what
happened. I only say it here so anyone reading knows too. All you can do is take my word for it.
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I would like to start by saying that as of September 15 1998, there is a new love
in my life. Her name is Tammy and she is a gift from God to me. She has been a really
great friend for many years. But as my marriage turned to divorce and I needed
extra suport, she was there being strong for me when I could not. I never expected
this to become more than a great friendship. But it seems that the heavens smiled
on me. One day after a long talk I managed to work up the courage to give her a kiss.
I half expected to get slapped not thinking that she (or anyone for that matter) could
feel love for me. I was quite suprised and pleased when she pulled me in to extend
the kiss as I started to pull away. That simple kiss has now become a full and rewarding
love. I know now that this is the woman that I was always ment to find and be with.
This love will carry us into our golden years and beyond. I only wish that I had found her
much sooner in life. Even thought that did not happen, I know that the remainder of my
life will be a full and rich one as she travels at my side through the years.